Today's guest post written by Susann catched my attention, probably because I always appreciated people extrovert, looking comfortable in every occasion, captivating the attention and fondness of the others.
However, if everybody would be an extrovert the world probably would be too noisy; therefore how to recognize and travel with an introvert person, integrating each other and having fun together?
Recognizing An Introvert
So what are the signs of you (or someone around you) being an introvert? I think this list from Psychology Today is quite good:
- Introverts enjoy having time to themselves
- Their best thinking occurs when they are on their own
- They are often great leaders when the group consists are self-starters
- An introvert is the last person to raise her/his hand when someone asks for something from a group
- Other people ask them about their opinion
- Introverts often wear headphones in a public situations
- They prefer not to engage with people who seem angry or upset
- They are on the receiving end when it comes to calls, texts, and emails – unless there is no choice
- An introvert does not initiate small talk with salespeople or others with whom they have casual contact
As I mentioned, I sometimes feel that extroverts do not really understand me as an introvert. I have no quick answers, I like to spend time on my own. There is no need for noise and the best ideas are born when there are no other people around. Perhaps I’m a bit peculiar travel-wise as well. People with the wanderlust gene are supposedly into risks and danger. This does not feel familiar at all.
5 Tips For Traveling With An Introvert
If I ever were to embark on a journey with an extrovert, these are the five things that I’d like that person to know about introverts.
1. Give Them Space
The fact that an introvert wants to be alone does not mean that she’s upset or that something’s wrong. Usually it’s a great way to gather thoughts, get energy, and come up with good ideas, or travel plans. If the extroverts wants to do something risky (such as socializing), it might be a good idea to part ways for a while.
2. Hear Them Out
It is sometimes difficult for introverts to make their voices heard. However, that does not mean that they don’t have anything meaningful to say.Sometimes they (or I) are a bit slow in reacting as they need to think things through before choosing the correct response. Especially in groups it’s important to give the introverts a chance to say what’s on their mind.
3. Tranquility Does Not Equal Being Bored
If you travel with an introvert, you need to understand that being calm and quiet does not equal boring or being bored. An introvert might not get super excited about everything, but that does not mean that they are not appreciating the experience.
4. Socializing Might Not Be Their Thing
Spending time with friends is great. Meeting new interesting people is often also nice. However, being forced to a constant flow of social events, networking, and meeting new people is draining and cumbersome. In other words, you might have completely opposite expectations when it comes to your trip.
5. Don’t Count On Them To Ask For Directions
Introverts don’t like talking to sales people, and they don’t like asking for directions. Maybe it is a certain kind of stubbornness, or maybe it’s fear. However, an introvert would much rather try to intercept the map than ask a stranger for directions. Even when she or he is already completely lost.
Source of text and arts: The Birreros Effect
Are you an introvert or an extrovert? How do you manage it? What's the your qualities while traveling? Post a comment below!